How to Get People to Change

What do you think of this simple little strategy?

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From extensive personal testing, I can tell you for certain that almost nobody likes to be told to do anything differently. Suggesting even slight modifications can be a great way to foster resentments and cause people to attack you.

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Liman Albridge

Liman Albridge

Half Ben Franklin, Half Tyler Durden. Emphasis on half. I get weird over at occultedordinary.com.